“Not to blame the victim, but-“

Nope, your argument stops there. I can’t do anything with posts like this, and I won’t even try. If you’re not trying to blame the victim, you wouldn’t bring them into it. You wouldn’t bring “but” into the situation either.

Usually if you have to insert “but” into something like this, what comes before the “but” is invalidated.

Stop.

(Source: writeoutoflove)